Saturday, August 27, 2005
solutions to family...
shiyun's reply to my prob on the family... she said:
my parents do care for mi... it can be shown by the willingness to pay for the huge sum for my education all these years... they r oso willing to pay for most of my needs... to that i shld be grateful... she oso gave mi her example of her parents... being conservative... nv admits that they r wrong even though it is so obvious that they r...n maybe my parents r like that oso... (hmmm... maybe...)
then she said that to improve my bonding w my family... i shld show my activeness in communicating with them... be more talkative... (n hopefully that sth will change...)
well... basically... it's like that... n i tink that it's true for a certain extent... i tink my parents r not the expressive type... n so i have for find their care n concern for mi through their actions... ya... i shld not take every little things for granted... actions like washing my clothes for mi may seem small... but i shld be glad that i dun have to wash them on my own... thx shiyun... for letting mi see another perspective of the situation... now that i've gotten a clearer picture... i'm not angry w them anymore... haha... save my brain cells...
rebec told mi sth regarding on how to deal w them letting know things only at the last min n i tink it's useful... that is to tell them abt my plans on a particular day once i've made my decision... n hence giving them a chance to tell mi if there r plans for that day... this way... i can avoid such miscommunication again... n oso i would not be at fault if anything was to be blamed as i have already done my part by taking the initiative... hehe... that's so clever of rebec...
SpilLeD by b|uE at 10:31:00 pm
