Friday, September 16, 2005
boyfriend...
my definition of a boyfriend is someone whom i can rely on... some1 who can provide me with a shoulder to lie on when i'm tired... some1 who is there when i need him... some1 who can offers mi good advice... some1 who listens to mi... some1 who enjoys talking to mi...
then... i have a qn... if one day when u r realli down... ur boyfriend reveals to u that... in this practical world... u have to be dependent on urself... u have to fight for ur own rights... the world is never fair... u have to tink for urself... is he trying to offer u good advice... or trying to tell u that u have to stop relying on me and be independent?? cos all this while... he keeps emphasis that the world is practical n u have to put urself on top of everything... n he din console u by saying "dun worry, u still have me around..."
no doubt... those are real n practical advise... 100% applicable to this realistic world... but... if ur boyfriend says that to u... it's a different matter altogether... cos i tot a boyfriend is suppose to offer u shelter from all this coldness in the world by giving u warmth... n not expose u to more cold hard facts abt the world... he's suppose to be the one comforting u... n not some1 who makes u cry... so when he does that.. is he trying to tell u sth?? that he doesn't want to be ur wall n pillar anymore??
SpilLeD by b|uE at 5:01:00 pm
